Men suck. And are funny at the same time. We're in Vegas for two days for a couple doc appointments and shopping. Coincidentally my hubby knew some guys from work who were going to be in town for a Bachelor Party.
A Bachelor Party is the most disgusting show of men gawking and probably fondling women with such low self-esteem all they can do with their lives is take their clothes off and do "special" favors for money.
I'm not real happy about the whole event, ever. Regardless of who is there and who it's for. I think it's sick. He came strolling in just after 6am this morning.
I also disagree with the Bachelorette ones with the male dancers. You're getting married, your not dying. You're gonna see other men and women in your life. So to use this one night as an excuse and make it seem OK to be drooling and getting immorally excited over someone who's paid to entertain is just simply wrong.
Hubby and I had a conversation on our way down here yesterday about this topic.
Naturally he thinks it's OK, he sees nothing wrong with it. I think it's wrong, I see nothing right with it.
Hubby says, "It's the last time for a man to get away with doing something like that because it's the last night he'll be single!"
Um... what?? You're engaged!! YOU'RE NOT SINGLE NOW!!!!
Hubby: "Well my bachelor party the women weren't that hot. There weren't any I wanted dances from."
Wow, that made me feel so much better. Until I remembered the convo we had on the plane ride AFTER his bachelor party. He got home an hour before we were to leave for the airport. Nice. 4 days before our wedding.
First of all, he got SEVERAL special dances thanks to his equally morally effed up friends who frequent the strip clubs.
On the plane, "I can't believe the things that girl did to me last night, I didn't know they could do that stuff!!"
Are you freaking kidding me??? And he wondered why I had my doubts about marrying him!
He still wonders why I don't respect the whole getting married and being married thing. Every chance he gets he's gawking over naked women. WTFever! Men don't take it seriously.
I told him clearly we have different morals. He said it has nothing to do with morals. WHAT?? Really???
I said it has EVERYTHING to do with morals!! I've never EVER gawked over another man, naked or dressed, the way HE has women. I've NEVER wanted to go see naked men dancing for entertainment!!! I've never slipped a guy a $20 and went behind some curtain to get him to grind his naked body all over mine. You know why? Because I have a man. If I need any kind of fix, why would I go anywhere else?
Am I just crazy?